I don't know why I find this so significant to post, but I just got off the phone with one of my friends (1 out of 2). She's one of those high emotional types. Very often we get into arguments. I always ask for her to explain why she's so worked up. Usually I can tell what happened, I just never understand why "that" made her upset or annoyed even if I know what it was. It's very frustrating indeed.
I love her but I just can't stand talking to her sometimes. She's usually complaining about something that annoyed her or bothered her, and oh my god, there are so many things. Or she's going on and on about some guy and a new relationship. I just stop listening usually and make little noises of acknowledgement, such as: Uh huh, yeah, (fake laugh), oh.
She's one of my very very few friends, so I can't do much besides tell her about all of this. When I do though, she just complains about how I'm rude and all. I'm not rude, I am just honest.
Unfortunately, I have the stereotypical lack of empathy and sympathy to people. I have much empathy to my pets though, and to movie characters. People though... most of the times, I just can't relate. Even in logical relatable situations, I just can't relate at all.
Question:
Why do people want dishonest friends?
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